Jan 3rd, 2012 by Annie
We Were the Mulvaneys by Joyce Carol Oates
Book Club Ideas
Although We Were the Mulvaneys is a rather somber novel, the family comes together for a festive 4th of July celebration. Corinne decorated with red, white and blue streamers and napkins, American flag table runners, and little flags. But no fireworks! These were forbidden by Corinne.
In keeping with the theme, choose some patriotic tunes such as those found on 4th Of July: Music For Independence Day.
Book Club Menu
There was so much food at the Mulvaney 4th of July picnic, preparing a menu for the book club party should be a snap.
The main course included hotdogs, grilled hamburgers, chicken with Sable’s Special Texas Hot Sauce, and a Virginia ham.

The family prepared yellow squash from Corinne’s garden, Judd brought sweet corn, and there were salads, muffins, and biscuits.
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For dessert choose one or more of Judd’s four birthday cakes. A fudgey chocolate cake, Whit’s Carrot Pumpkin Ginger Yogurt Pound Cake, an angel food cake with sculpted egg white frosting, or a strawberry ice cream cake in a heart-shaped pan. Check out this fancy strawberry ice cream cake from epicurious.com.
Whit’s Carrot Pumpkin Ginger Yogurt Pound Cake proved to be a bit of challenge.
After some experimentation and two cakes later, I got it!

Visit our 4th of July recipe page for more recipes.
Book Club Resources
Ratings at the time this post was published
| Goodreads: 3.42 stars (18,340 ratings) |
| Amazon: 3.1 stars (502 ratings) |
| LibraryThing: 3.56 stars (3.56 ratings) |
| My Rating: 4 stars We Were the Mulvaneys reminded me very much of my own family dynamic growing up. It is beautifully written and moving, and painfully touched a nerve. |
Discussion
- How did you feel about Joyce Carol Oates’ use of Judd Mulvaney, the baby of the family, as the primary narrator. Why do you think Ms. Oates used Judd in this way? Did you find it effective? Distracting?
- Why did Marianne refuse to press charges? Did Marianne blame herself for what happened? Or did she have other reasons?
- How did you feel about Michael’s treatment of Marianne? Why did Michael react the way he did?
- Corinne was faced with a dilemma regarding Marianne and Michael. Why do you think she chose one over the other? Would you have reacted the same way? Why or why not?
- Although, the incident involving Marianne and the reactions to it contributed to the family’s falling apart, did you find any hints in the novel that fracture lines already existed?
- Where you satisfied with the novel’s conclusion? Why or why not?
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The Author
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Joyce Carol Oates is the Roger S. Berlind Distinguished professor in the Humanities at Princeton University. She has been received awards and recognition for several of her numerous works. | |
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Joyce Carol Oates has also been recognized by the Rea Award for the Short Story, the Guggenheim Foundation, the National Institute of Arts and Letters, the Lotus Club, and the 1996 PEN/Malamud Award for lifetime achievement in the short story form.
Other Works by Joyce Carol Oates
For a complete list of Joyce Carol Oates’ works please click here.
Personal Insights, Favorite Quotes, etc…
Do you have a favorite quote from We Were the Mulvaneys? Here is one of mine …
“In a family, what isn’t spoken is what you listen for. But the noise of a family is to drown it out.”
Joyce Carol Oates reflects on her epic family novel We Were the Mulvaneys “…it came in time, to remind me, so very unexpectedly, of a Shakespearean tragedy in which no one is actually “wrong” and yet all suffer.
| We Were the Mulvaneys was made into a Lifetime Television movie in 2002 starring Jeff Bridges as Michael and Blythe Danner as Corinne. It was nominated for three Emmys and is currently available on DVD. |
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