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The Help by Kathryn Stockett

The Help by Katherine Stockett The Help by Kathryn Stockett revolves around three southern women during the 1960s.

From the publisher: Aibileen is a black maid in 1962 Jackson, Mississippi, who’s always taken orders quietly, but lately she’s unable to hold her bitterness back. Her friend Minny has never held her tongue but now must somehow keep secrets about her employer that leave her speechless. White socialite Skeeter just graduated college. She’s full of ambition, but without a husband, she’s considered a failure. Together, these seemingly different women join together to write a tell-all book about work as a black maid in the South, that could forever alter their destinies and the life of a small town…

Book Club Ideas for The Help

Decorations for the book club party for The Help can include a vase of azaleas and if you have access to one, a mimosa branch.

I also enjoy decorating with books.  Here are several of the books I used:  Walking With The Wind: A Memoir of The Movement by Lewis and D’Orso and The Civil Rights Movement: A Photographic History by Steven Kasher.  I also included The Farmer’s Almanac, which Skeeter’s mom was reading, and Curious George and Madeline, books Aibilene read to Mae Mobley.

I also set out a can of Crisco.

Crisco all vegetable shortening Minny believes that Crisco is “the most important invention in the kitchen since jarred mayonnaise.” She then goes into the many uses of Crisco including getting gum out of your hair, diaper rash, eye cream, dry feet, taking price tags off, squeaky door hinges, and if you stick a wick in it, it can be a candle. Aibileen played a game with her son where he would have to come up with a fancy word for a simple word she gave him. He was stumped on Crisco. It then became a joke between them where Crisco meant something you can’t dress up no matter how hard you try. They then used it to describe his daddy.


The Help talks about Skeeter listening to Patsy Cline on the day her plane crashed. Her voice is amazing!

When Skeeter hears Bob Dylan’s song The Times They Are A-Changin’ she thinks it is better than anything she has ever heard. She feels like she just heard something from the future. Very wise, Skeeter.

Patsy Cline music Bob Dylan Music

For a variety of different artists, I recommend Pure 60s: The #1 hits. Your guests will be dancing in their chairs and singing along to the music.

Book Club Menu for The Help

Southern drink recipes, mint I started the evening with a most southern swag.  I prepared a pitcher of refreshing mint juleps and sat on the front porch to enjoy with my guests until everyone arrived.

Southern cooking is a must for a book club menu for The Help.

Celia’s Butter Beans served with Buttermilk Cornbread Muffins

beans, cornbread, southern recipes

Bourbon Sweet Potatoes

sweet potato recipes, southern food

Minny’s Caramel Cake served in Old Fashioned glasses

southern recipes

I also bought a Chocolate Pie. I displayed the packaging next to it so my guests would know that it was store bought.

chocolates recipes, whipped cream


There are many other food references in the book that can be used to plan a book club party menu for The Help.

  • Celia was feeding her husband grits and corn pone everyday, until Minny came along.
  • The food that Minny made for Mr. Johnny’s supper includes pork chops, fried chicken, roast beef, chicken pie, lamb rack, baked ham, fried tomatoes and mashed potatoes. Minny would also make ham with pineapples, black-eyed peas, apple pie and biscuits.
  • One night, Minny had fried okra and peach cobbler for dinner.
  • Stuart and Skeeter eat strawberry souffles with a glass of Chablis at the Robert E. Lee just before he kissed her.
  • Coca-Cola is a beverage that is mentioned many times.

Book Club Resources


  • “It’s graceful and real, a compulsively readable story of three women who watch the Mississippi ground shifting beneath their feet as the words of men like Martin Luther King Jr. and Bob Dylan pervade their genteel town. When folks at your book club wonder what to read next month, go on and pitch this wholly satisfying novel with confidence. A-“ — Entertainment Weekly
  • “Set in the rural South of the 1960’s, THE HELP is a startling, resonant portrait of the intertwined lives of women on opposite sides of the racial divide. Stockett’s many gifts – a keen eye for character, a wicked sense of humor, the perfect timing of a natural born storyteller – shine as she evokes a time and place when black women were expected to help raise white babies, and yet could not use the same bathroom as their employers. Her characters, both white and black, are so fully fleshed they practically breathe – no stock villains or pious heroines here. I’m becoming an evangelist for The Help. Don’t miss this wise and astonishing debut.” –Joshilyn Jackson, Bestselling author of Gods in Alabama
  • “Some books are so good that I’ll stay awake all night to finish reading them. The Help is one of those books. It also happens to be one of the best fiction books I’ve read about race relations and the birth of the civil rights movement” – Mamanista! Blog

Discussion Questions for The Help

  1. Did you like how the story was told from the perspective of three different characters?  How did it add or detract from the story?  Would you have preferred to hear the story from only one of the characters?  Which one?
  2. Who was your favorite character?  Why?
  3. Think about Skeeter at the beginning and end of the book.  How has she changed?
  4. How important is the setting in Jackson, MS?  How would the book have been different had it taken place somewhere else?
  5. Did you learn anything new about the civil rights movement?
  6. Imagine Skeeter 5 years after the story ends.  What is she doing?  Where does she live?  What about the other characters?

The Author

Kathryn Stockett was born and raised in Jackson, Mississippi. After graduating from the University of Alabama with a degree in English and Creative Writing, she moved to New York City, where she worked in magazine publishing and marketing for nine years. The Help is her first novel.

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